"I do not know if what I like about you is what differentiates you from meor what we have in common. Like it or not, I am pleased by two things. What is common comforts me, what is different Stimulates me ... "- JoanManuel Serrat

Kids 'different' are not inferior, though still seen as inappropriate and there is a tendency to be isolated by their families. But the family has a member with disabilities do not have to differentiate themselves from families who do not.